How do you deal with an obsessive ex?
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How do you deal with an obsessive ex?
How to deal with an obsessed ex lover
- Be direct.
- Be kind but remain firm.
- Tell friends and family what is happening, especially friends you have in common.
- Avoid contact with him.
- If he continues, notify him that you might take action.
- If he persists even after that, call the police or take legal action.
- Warning – Stalking.
How can I make my ex go away?
How to Break It Off with an Ex Who Won’t Let Go
- Directly state that you want him out of your life.
- Do not respond to any of his communication.
- Unfriend, unfollow, and consider doing the same with his friends.
- Have his emails sent directly to ‘trash.
- Block his number.
- Don’t check on him.
What to do when your ex is talking about you?
When you find out that your ex has been talking about you to your mutual friends, sooner or later you start doing the same so that you can show them that you’re also thinking about them. You’re not sending them messages directly because you don’t want to seem needy.
What to do when your ex is bad mouthing you?
Name bad-mouthing as a problem but don’t respond with your own bad-mouthing, i.e., “your father’s a nightmare and is out for revenge.” Instead, acknowledge that your ex says bad things about you and focus on the impact on your kids: “What you’ve heard may have scared you, or made you angry.”
What to do if your ex is trying to control your kids?
Your ex is trying to control what your kids think, so give them permission to think for themselves. Tell them to talk to you directly if they have concerns about you. Don’t pressure them to believe your side of the story; instead, let them know they have a right to their own feelings and opinions.
Why do people act like their ex when they want them back?
People often act like their ex when they want them back, and this situation is no exception. When you find out that your ex has been talking about you to your mutual friends, sooner or later you start doing the same so that you can show them that you’re also thinking about them.
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