How does a narcissist feel about their ex?

For one, narcissists often struggle with abandonment issues. “They’re struggling with a core insecurity,” she says. “If we’re solid in our sense of self, we may miss someone, but we won’t feel that primitive sense of abandonment. It makes them feel like they’re getting away with something, and fuels their grandiosity.”

How do narcissists react to a break up?

Narcissists hate losing their supply, so they won’t let you go easily. Prepare for them to promise “to change.” They might suddenly start doing things for you that you’d been complaining about. They may say “you’ll be lost without me,” or “you’ll never find someone like me.” Don’t listen, Orloff advises.

Why do narcissists always return to their ex-lovers?

A narcissist will always return to an ex-lover to ensure that his narcissistic supply still pines for him and that she never moves on from the pain he has caused her.

What happens when a narcissist knows you have figured him out?

When the narcissist knows you have figured him out, they will hate the fact that you beat them to the discard; after all, that’s their job. Once they feel they have got everything they can out of you, they move on to their next victim. A person suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder will perceive your decision as abandonment.

Do narcissists feel jealousy when you move on?

Jealousy is one of the most obvious things a narcissist feels, as soon as you move on. They get so jealous of seeing you happy, especially even without him. And this is even more extreme when you start talking with a new partner.

Why are narcissists aggressive when they are replaced?

Narcissists are wounded people who can’t bare at all when they are replaced. Moving away from the narcissist make them strongly feel replaced. This feeling of replacement triggers the wounds of the narcissist making him more aggressive.