Is it bad if my girlfriend talks to her ex?

Perry says you also have a right to be worried if your SO is talking to an ex just as frequently or more frequently than they talk to you. (Duh.) Daily messages and phone calls between exes are pretty much always a bad idea — unless they’re trying to get back together.

Should you compare relationships?

You should never compare your relationships to others because it is toxic. Getting caught up in comparisons blinds you to the good things about your own relationship. You end up ruminating over the things your relationship lacks, which can lead to sadness and resentment toward your partner.

Is it bad to compare relationships?

Comparisons can be a little bit selfish because you’re only thinking of what your partner can do for you, instead of considering the great aspects of your relationship like what good friends you are or how well you communicate. If you are stuck in a loop of spousal comparisons, a marriage therapist can help.

Should I let my girlfriend talk to her ex?

Most of the time, there is nothing good about your girlfriend talking to her ex. What you need to do is step back for a minute and think about how much you really feel for her. Understand that if she is still feeling for her ex, you will never have all of her, as much as that hurts. You need to take action and take care of you.

Why does my girlfriend compare me to her exes?

So, since she’s not with the ex anymore, it’s obviously because she’s on the lookout for someone better (unless he dumped her hard and fast). And her way of gauging where you measure up to her exes is to compare you with her tainted past.

Should you be friends with your girlfriend’s ex-boyfriend?

Keep your mind open here but play it smart. If your girlfriend feels she is obligated to be there for her ex-boyfriend, that’s seriously not a good sign. If suddenly your girl wants to be friends with her ex because he has nobody else, you need to keep your guard up.

Does my girlfriend want to get back with her ex?

Because if she is talking about her ex, that’s really not showing you she cares about your feelings. Don’t let her use you just because she is afraid of being alone. If she is showing you with numerous signals she wants to get back with her ex, you’ve got to cut her loose.