Do narcissists try to ruin your life?

Narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths can cause long-lasting damage to the lives of their victims. Their emotional and verbal abuse, combined with their cruel, persistent attempts at sabotage, can even drive their victims to self-destruction and suicide.

Why do narcissist come back after years?

A narcissist will come back after no contact if they find themselves low on attention, and they consider you easy to get that attention from. Most narcissists hate being alone, and they need attention far more than most people. It’s only when narcissists need something that they appear back in your life.

How a narcissist ruins your life?

Life with a narcissist can be extremely stressful, leading to depression or anxiety. It can also make you physically sick. You may feel it in the pit of your stomach. This isn’t surprising, as stress and dismay are often coupled with a gut disturbance.

Do narcissists contact their exes out of the Blue?

  They’ve been known to contact old flames out of the blue, sometimes as long as ten years post-breakup! If the narcissist in your life is playing these juvenile love games (e.g. disappearing, hiding their cell phone, accusing you of being overly jealous, etc.), then there is a very good chance that they are tending their Garden of Supply.

What happens when a narcissist no longer values you?

For example, one day the narcissist may abuse you so harshly and immediately the next day comes back to you showering with love. This mixed emotions phase continues until they take a decision to leave you. Once the narcissist no longer values you, he/she discards you completely putting an end to your relationship.

Do narcissists ever let go of their exes?

However, narcissists typically don’t let go of their exes completely.   They’ve been known to contact old flames out of the blue, sometimes as long as ten years post-breakup!

Does the narcissist have another life going on behind your back?

Another warning that the narcissist has another life (or lives) going on behind your back is their bringing up an ex who is obsessed with them or how they broke up right before you met and this ex doesn’t want to let them go.   They may go as far as to say their ex is depressed or suicidal and the narcissist must let them down gently.