How do you know if your ex is testing the waters?

If they start talking about things you did together, or find ways to work them into conversation, your ex might still be in love with you and is testing the waters. It’s normal to reminisce and it’s healthy to look back at a relationship fondly, but it might be going too far…

Why does my ex keep testing me?

Your ex may also be testing you because they still love you, they want to be with you – but maybe they don’t trust you, or there’s changes they think you need to make in order to get back together.

What are mixed signals from an ex?

In the context of relationships, mixed signals are when a person is expressing interest in someone while also simultaneously expressing a lack of interest or a desire to keep their distance, causing confusion for the other person.

How does your ex test you after a breakup?

After a break up, your ex might put you through various tests to see how you react. 4 examples of these tests are… 1. Being Cold or Mean Towards You to See if You Get Angry

What does it mean when your ex texts you “U Up?

Bela Gandhi, president at Smart Dating Academy, adds that a text from an ex “could mean a variety of different things.” In other words, a “u up?” text will mean something different than a “hey! congrats on the new job” text.

What to do if your ex acts like she doesn’t have feelings?

So, if your ex acts like she doesn’t have feelings for you, don’t fail her confidence test by crumbling and feeling rejected, sad and confused. Just laugh at her and crack a joke and she will automatically feel respect and attraction for you (i.e. have feelings for you).

What does it mean when your ex wants to get back together?

So, messages explicitly saying that they have regrets about the split or that they want to see you should be taken at face value — barring your ex having a history of manipulative behavior. If you suspect your ex does want to get back together, but they haven’t made their intentions clear, try asking them directly.