How does a man support his family?

Most men believe that being a good provider means supporting a family financially. A man should also contribute to the emotional, spiritual, physical and mental well-being of his family. In order to do this, he must recognize that there are other currencies, in addition to money, that need to be provided.

Should I support my husband if he doesn’t stand by his family?

There could be a circumstance when your husband really needs to give his family his undivided attention and financial help. That could be an illness, the need to bail out from a debt or such similar situations. In that case, you will have to support him to stand by his family. If you don’t then you could be alienating him from you.

Should a husband choose his family over his spouse?

After all, a man may be more likely to respect his wife and treat her with honor when that’s how he views and treats his mother. Additionally, there may be times when it’s only appropriate that a husband is choosing his family over his spouse — lots of unforeseen family emergencies can arise that can demand a son’s attention.

Does your husband stand up for you when his family disrespects you?

It can be hard when you feel that your husband doesn’t stand up for you when you feel disrespected by his family. It is obviously a bad thing for a son to love and care for his family; a husband’s strong relationship with his parents can not only nourish but positively inform a marriage and see to its longevity.

What should I do if my husband sides with his family?

If your husband constantly chooses or sides with his family over you, it is time for the two of you to take a hard look at your priorities. Young couples, or couples at any stage of marriage, should evaluate the boundaries where their in-laws or other family members are concerned, suggests Dr. Phil.