What does it feel like to be discarded by a narcissist?

The narcissist lacks empathy, which prevents them from understanding how their words affect others. They cannot put themselves in someone else’s position and understand that they can be brutal and mean. For this reason, the discard is often sudden, unexpected, and brutal.

How does it feel to be discarded?

When you’re first discarded you don’t understand what’s happening. You’re dazed, confused, and relentlessly pursuing the one you love — the very person who’s discarded you. It’s a feeling that can’t be described in any other way than nonsensical. And it leaves you reeling with shock and pain.

What happens when you discard the narcissist?

This cycle confirms the narcissist’s distorted sense of being superior to their victims. If the victim ‘discards’ the narcissist first, he or she upsets the power dynamic that bolsters the abuser’s desire for power and validation.

What is the final stage of a narcissist discard phase?

Narcissist Discard Phase: Revenge or Peace? Tonight, I’m going to talk about the final stage of a narcissist. The final stage is when they discard you and they get rid of you. And so tonight I was looking and trying to really understand why everyone’s story of the discard is so strong and so full of horror and shock.

How to cope with a narcissist discard you?

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What does it feel like to be in love with a narcissist?

For someone who’s deeply in love with the narcissist by this point, the discard can feel utterly devastating. So much so that it often destroys lives.

Is the narcissist discontinue Phase a blessing in disguise?

Assuming the narcissist is actually done with you, the narcissist discard phase can be a blessing in disguise. You can finally be free of their controlling behaviors and hurtful words, but in the moment]