What does it mean if you keep going back to your ex?

Walfish says that people return to an ex to stop feeling so lonely, and Martinez explains that one of the main reasons people return to exes is fear. Martinez says when someone returns to an ex, it can be that “there’s still something left unresolved, or some additional lesson they need to learn in that relationship.”

Why you should never return to an ex?

The period right after the breakup can be extremely difficult, especially if you parted ways on bad terms. Over time, things do get better and you begin to heal emotionally. In such a situation, it is definitely not advisable to get back with your ex because it will result in prolonging emotional trauma.

Why does my ex keep trying to hurt me?

There are two possibilities why an ex is trying to hurt you. Your ex is trying to get back at you due to the victim’s mentality. Your ex just doesn’t care enough and hurts you inadvertently. It’s not too difficult to discern whether your ex is hurting you on purpose or non-intentionally.

Why did my ex reach out to me?

Even though your ex broke up with you, the reaching out is an indication there’s a part of them that misses you – even if they don’t say that in their message or call. What it doesn’t necessarily mean, is that they want to get back together. They Need To Fulfill A Need.

Why are exes always trying to come back?

Here are a couple reasons why your ex might be making a comeback. They don’t like losing. When you pull away from someone you used to be involved with, they feel like they’re losing something they had. It’s very much a possessive/power move. They wonder why they lost you and start to remember what they could have, if you were in their life.

Should exes ever get back together?

So, should exes get back together? The vast majority of them, no, they shouldn’t. But the rule of “what broke you up the first time will break you up again” is far from being the truth. While the black and white rule of “getting back with your ex is never a good idea” is a sexy concept, it’s simply not true in real life.