Why do I make everything so complicated?

In my experience, we complicate things for one main reason: because we are unwilling to deal with our own insecurities and short-comings. We then blame some other person or event, not ourselves, and that skews our reality.

Why do some people overcomplicate everything?

Why do we go after the complicated? It adds a shallow texture to our day. And our brains like to overthink things so that we can delay decision making. Regardless, we overcomplicate things to help delay our decision making because if we can create a delay, then we won’t fail.

How do we complicate life?

Here are 21 ways we complicate life and how we can stop.

1. We Procrastinate.
2. We Worry.
3. We Wait.
4. We Do More Than We Should.
5. We Accept Too Many Interruptions.
6. We Seek Approval and Affirmation From Others.
7. We’re Not Really Productive.
8. We Aim for Control.

Why do I like complex things?

Psychologists have demonstrated that people prefer a middle level of complexity: too simple and we are bored, too complex and we are confused. Moreover, the ideal level of complexity is a moving target, because the more expert we become at any subject, the more complexity we prefer.

What is the most complicated thing in life?

The brain
The brain is the last and grandest biological frontier, the most complex thing we have yet discovered in our universe. It contains hundreds of billions of cells interlinked through trillions of connections. The brain boggles the mind.

What does overly complicated mean?

Definition of overcomplicated : complicated to an excessive degree : overly difficult to understand or explain an overcomplicated system/plot overcomplicated assembly instructions The dishes were never overcomplicated, yet were subtly complex …—

How do you simplify things when your life gets complicated?

12 Ways To Simplify Your Life Today

1. #1 — Downsize your home.
2. #2 — Avoid extraneous expenses.
3. #3 — Have a garage sale.
4. #4 — Slow down and enjoy life.
5. #5 — Organize clutter.
6. #6 — Focus on the Pareto Principle.
7. #7 — Avoid multitasking.
8. #8 — Reduce and eliminate your debt.

What’s the difference between complicated and complex?

Complex is used to refer to the level of components in a system. If a problem is complex, it means that it has many components. Complexity does not evoke difficulty. On the other hand, complicated refers to a high level of difficulty.

Who is a complicated person?

The definition of complicated is someone or something that is hard to understand or something that is hard to untangle. A romantic relationship that involves more than two people is an example of complicated.

What’s the hardest thing to learn?

13 skills that are hard to learn but will pay off forever

• Positive self-talk.
• Knowing when to shut up — and actually doing it.
• Listening.
• Minding your business.
• Resisting gossip.
• Mastering your thoughts.
• Staying present in the moment.
• Speaking up. Speaking up in public can be so hard for many of us to do.

What is unnecessarily complicated?

Labyrinthine, convoluted, unnecessarily complicated. Notes: Today’s is another word not used nearly enough. It has an intensive sense, that is, extremely twisted or tortuous, more complicated than necessary when talking about an argument or explanation.

What to do when someone isn’t being clear?

Someone isn’t being clear. Stop wasting time and money trying to acquire more of everything. – Start focusing on quality. High quality is worth more than any quantity, in possessions, friends and experiences.

How can I keep my life simple and enjoyable?

Keep life simple and enjoyable by doing what you know in your heart is right. Stop meaning what you don’t say. – Start communicating clearly. Don’t try to read other people’s minds, and don’t make other people try to read yours. Most problems, big and small, within a family, friendship, or business relationship, start with bad communication.

How to stop being lazy and cutting corners?

Stop being lazy and cutting corners. – Start avoiding future headaches by doing things right the first time. Always put your best foot forward. Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment. Why give less than 100\%? Life is too short to waste it by living below your full potential.

How to get rid of stuff you don’t use?

Get rid of stuff you don’t use and then organize what’s left. If you have a cluttered living or working space, it can be distracting and stressful. A clear space is like a blank canvas, available to be used to create something great. Getting truly organized and clutter-free can vastly improve anyone’s life.