How can I express myself with social anxiety?
Table of Contents
- 1 How can I express myself with social anxiety?
- 2 How do I stop being struggling with social anxiety?
- 3 Why do I have a hard time speaking my mind?
- 4 What does it feel like to have social anxiety disorder?
- 5 How do I deal with social anxiety disorder (SAD)?
- 6 Should you share your social anxiety experience with others?
Some common examples of this “Be Yourself” assertiveness practice within social situations include:
- Stating a need and/or your true feelings in an interpersonal interaction.
- Joining a group activity, or leaving a group activity based on what you are truly feeling in the moment.
- Offering a differing opinion.
7 Tips for Living With Social Anxiety
- Control Your Breathing.
- Try Exercise or Progressive Muscle Relaxation.
- Prepare.
- Start Small.
- Take the Focus Off Yourself.
- Talk Back to Negative Thoughts.
- Use Your Senses.
Why do I struggle with social anxiety?
There’s no one thing that causes social anxiety disorder. Genetics likely has something to do with it: If you have a family member with social phobia, you’re more at risk of having it, too. It could also be linked to having an overactive amygdala — the part of the brain that controls your fear response.
Why do I have a hard time speaking my mind?
Aphasia is a communication disorder that makes it hard to use words. It can affect your speech, writing, and ability to understand language. Aphasia results from damage or injury to language parts of the brain. It’s more common in older adults, particularly those who have had a stroke.
It always feels like others are evaluating them, being critical of them, or “judging” them in some way. The person with social anxiety knows that people don’t do this openly, of course, but they still feel the self-consciousness and the judgment while they are in the other person’s presence.
Is it easier to avoid social situations when you have social anxiety?
“It’s just easier to avoid social situations.”. In public places, such as work, meetings, or shopping, people with social anxiety feel that everyone is watching and staring at them (even though rationally they know this isn’t true). The socially anxious person can’t relax, “take it easy”, and enjoy themselves in public.
Do something. Although it can be tempting to avoid social and performance situations if you suffer from social anxiety disorder (SAD), it is important to get yourself out there. That means accepting invitations to go places and do things that make you uncomfortable.
Whether you have conquered social anxiety or you are right in the midst of it, your experiences are valuable and should be shared with others. Sharing your story will help others realize that they are not alone, and will also bring more awareness to a problem that is mostly kept behind closed doors.