What to do if you have been loaned money by a narcissist?

1 Record all instances of money loaned to the narcissist in a password-protected document. 2 Change all passwords to your personal financial accounts. 3 Separate your financial accounts as quickly as possible. 4 Contact any creditors about suspicious accounts made in your name. 5 Reach out to friends and family for financial assistance if needed.

Do you deserve to be left in a narcissistic relationship?

For those unfamiliar with narcissists and their ways, the discard phase might seem like the inevitable end to a failed relationship. After weeks, months, or even years of being devalued, victims of narcissistic abuse often believe that they deserve to be left.

How long does the build-up to a narcissistic discard last?

The build-up to a discard can last weeks or even months as the narcissist preps you for the final phase. The way this phase plays out is largely determined by how far along you are in your relationship with the narcissist.

Do narcissists use money for their agenda?

Typically, each type of narcissist uses money for a specific agenda, which I have outlined below. When it comes to narcissists and money, there are generally four faces of narcissistic financial abuse:

How to retrieval from a Narcissistic Man?

Retrieval: Understand without self-blame. Realizing what you unwittingly brought to the party and understanding why you choose this man are key to making sure you don’t repeat history. The truth is that the narcissist looks for a partner he can woo and wow, as well as someone he can manage and intimidate.

How does a narcissist’s money issues affect your relationship?

At times, your complicated relationship with the narcissist and money issues will often feel unfair and cruel. First, their decisions may feel completely erratic. For example, they might buy a brand new boat when they live nowhere close to a lake. Or, they will spontaneously start a business despite no knowledge about the industry.