Why do we overlook red flags?

First, we ignore red flags because we are afraid they are telling the true, painful story. Second, we ignore red flags because we think our intuition is wrong. It simply cannot be right. So we engage in denial and carry on as if nothing is wrong because it’s easier to deny than to go through the pain of conflict.

What do you do when you see a red flag?

What do you do when you see a red flag? When you see a major red flag, stop immediately — or as soon as it’s safe to do so. Don’t try to convince yourself that you didn’t see what you thought you saw or find another reason to explain things away.

How can signs of abuse be misinterpreted?

Common signs

• unexplained changes in behaviour or personality.
• becoming withdrawn.
• seeming anxious.
• becoming uncharacteristically aggressive.
• lacks social skills and has few friends, if any.
• poor bond or relationship with a parent.
• knowledge of adult issues inappropriate for their age.
• running away or going missing.

How do you explain red flags in a relationship?

13 red flags to look out for:

1. Physical abuse. Any kind of physical abuse should be taken very seriously, Page notes.
2. Verbal and/or emotional abuse.
3. Active addiction.
4. Untreated mental health issues.
5. Inconsistency.
6. Possessiveness.
7. Narcissism.
8. Gaslighting.

What are the signs and symptoms of harm and abuse?

Signs of physical abuse

• bruises, black eyes, welts, lacerations, and rope marks.
• broken bones.
• open wounds, cuts, punctures, untreated injuries in various stages of healing.
• broken eyeglasses/frames, or any physical signs of being punished or restrained.
• laboratory findings of either an overdose or under dose medications.

Which of the following is an effect of abuse?

Maltreatment can cause victims to feel isolation, fear, and distrust, which can translate into lifelong psychological consequences that can manifest as educational difficulties, low self-esteem, depression, and trouble forming and maintaining relationships.