Will a narcissist change for his new supply?

The narcissist has no incentive to change for the new supply, just as they had no incentive to change with you. The world revolves around the narcissist – or so they believe. People come into their lives when they need to use them and are discarded when they are done.

Why does my narcissist keep coming back?

Narcissists act (or refrain from acting) based solely on the availability of Narcissistic Supply (or lack thereof). If the narcissist keeps coming back – he does so because he is convinced that there is Narcissistic Supply to be obtained – or because he has yet to secure an alternative source of supply.

When the narcissist loses their primary supply?

When deprived of Narcissistic Supply – both primary AND secondary – the narcissist feels annulled, hollowed out, or mentally disembowelled. This is an overpowering sense of evaporation, disintegration into molecules of terrified anguish, helplessly and inexorably.

Are all narcissistic supplies the same?

But not all narcissistic supply is the same or has the same value to the narcissist. Basically, there are three sources of supply, each with a different function, and they are known as: – 1. Primary Narcissistic Supply (PNS), 2. Secondary Narcissistic Supply (SNS), and 3.

Why do narcissists turn to their secondary supply?

Whenever their Primary Source of Supply is unavailable they will turn to their Secondary Narcissistic Supply, most especially their significant others (i.e. wife/husband, children, etc.) to be recharged before they go in search of a new source of Primary Supply. This is their constant pattern of behaviour.

Who is the vessel through which narcissistic supply flows?

Generally, it is the human victims that becomes the vessel through which narcissistic supply flows with the greatest abundance. But not all narcissistic supply is the same or has the same value to the narcissist. Basically, there are three sources of supply, each with a different function, and they are known as: – 1.

Why were you chosen to be with a narcissist?

You were chosen because you are normal, kind, loving, a good parent, responsible, so your being with the narcissist means that the narcissist MUST be a good person and WORTHY of your love, which the N is NOT. You were chosen for your VIRTUES in order to cover the narcissist’s vices.