What to say to a friend who has hurt you?

Plan your words carefully. It could go like this: “You’ve been a great friend to me for many months, and I treasure our relationship. There’s something I want to talk to you about so I can better understand something that I might be creating a story around.” State your issues in an “I felt hurt when you _______.”

How do you let a friend know they hurt you?

5 Steps for Telling Someone They Hurt or Disrespected You

1. Start with why what you want to say is important.
2. Briefly describe what happened that felt hurtful or disrespectful.
3. Say how their behavior made you feel—the impact.
4. Ask for what you need going forward.
5. End by reinforcing why you are making this request.

Can you be friends with someone who hurt you?

If someone is hurting you too much, don’t even try to be there for him or her. True friends and healthy relationships should never be one-sided or compromise the integrity of your well-being. Remember: A true friend or partner in life would never want to cause you pain or hurt you in any way.

What should I do if my friend keeps hurting me?

Tell your friend the situations where you got hurt so that he understands and wont repeat such things. Its hard to suggest what exactly should be done in this case as it totally depends on the situation. One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood. In any case, think before you act.

How do you deal with a friend who has wronged you?

Discuss it with someone else you trust. If you can’t get your friend to talk to you, talk things over with someone whose opinion you value. But don’t play the gossip game. It might feel good to turn a mutual friend against a friend who’s wronged you, but in the end it will just make the situation worse.

What should I do if my friends are not on my Side?

Don’t paint all of your friends with the same brush. Sometimes people who we think are on our side turn out not to be, for reasons we may never learn. If this happens, don’t seek revenge, but move on and away from the hurt. Other friends can help with this. Most friends don’t set out to hurt us.

What should I do if my friend is angry with Me?

It can also give your friend time to calm down and think about how he may have hurt you. Speaking/acting out of anger can also lead to damaging arguments. Remember that you cannot take back what you say in a moment of anger, but you can choose whether or not to speak in the moment.