How and what do women want men to provide?

How and what I provide for her, needs to evolve. The strength women want men to provide is not just physical strength but emotional strength. Similarly, the safety women want men to provide is not just physical safety but emotional safety. Let me explain. Women want men to have the emotional capacity and intelligence to make them feel safe.

Is there a link between biology and sexual desire in women?

In 2018 an article in the Archives of Sexual Behavior surmised “Research has not conclusively demonstrated that biology is among the primary mechanisms involved in inhibiting sexual desire in women.” Rather, the authors said, body image, relationship satisfaction and learned values intervene to shape women’s experiences of lust.

What does dwindling desire mean to a woman?

For both women, along with dozens of others that I spoke to, dwindling desire was an affront to identity. It exposed the limits of what they had expected of themselves, namely that they should settle down with one man and be emotionally and physically content from there on out.

Are women too demanding?

To many men it might seem that women can be demanding, never satisfied and often finding fault. However, their needs are quite simple in many ways. Once you understand them better it will not only improve your relationship with them, but you’ll realise that these needs are not the sole desire of women.

Why is understanding women’s needs important in a relationship?

Once you understand them better it will not only improve your relationship with them, but you’ll realise that these needs are not the sole desire of women. Men and women are similar in so many ways, yet the dynamic between them is often defined by how we are different.

How has the role of women changed in relationships?

With gender equality the role of women has changed hugely. However many relationships continue to use the same relationship blueprint from this other age. Unchallenged and without the evolution that women have experienced, men have some catching up to do.

Should women compare themselves to what they see in the media?

By nature we tend to make comparisons, so of course when a woman’s comparing herself to what she sees in advertising or the media, she’s going to wind up coming up short. She’s going to feel like a failure.