How do you outsmart a toxic person?

Read on for tips on how to respond to this type of behavior.

1. Avoid playing into their reality.
2. Don’t get drawn in.
3. Pay attention to how they make you feel.
4. Talk to them about their behavior.
5. Put yourself first.
6. Offer compassion, but don’t try to fix them.
7. Say no (and walk away)
8. Remember, you aren’t at fault.

What causes a person to be toxic?

People are often toxic because they’re not interested in being stable and healthy in relationships. Another sign of a toxic person is no boundaries. If you’ve been clear with someone time and again about your needs, and they just can’t help themselves but to disrespect you, they are toxic.

Is being too nice a toxic trait?

It actually is a desirable human trait. However, some people (for various reasons) are overly nice; they will be at the beck and call of everyone, put up with abuse and disrespect, and always put their well-being aside for others. Being overly nice has tremendous and long-lasting negative effects.

What does it mean when someone is toxic?

‘Toxic’ people feel an unconscious need to bring others down to boost their own feelings of self-worth. They’re usually completely unaware of their unconscious need to hurt others and ignorant of the fact that they do that because they don’t feel good about themselves.

Do toxic people only say bad things when they see you?

If you’re with someone and they only have bad things to say whenever you see them, watch out; it might not get better. Some toxic people are magnets for drama. Something is always wrong. Always. And of course, once a problem is solved, another one emerges. And they only want your empathy, sympathy, and support–but not your advice!

What are the signs of a toxic person in a relationship?

They’ll manipulate. If you feel as though you’re the only one contributing to the relationship, you’re probably right. Toxic people have a way of sending out the vibe that you owe them something. They also have a way of taking from you or doing something that hurts you, then maintaining they were doing it all for you.

Why do toxic people complain and complain?

Some toxic people are magnets for drama. Something is always wrong. Always. And of course, once a problem is solved, another one emerges. And they only want your empathy, sympathy, and support–but not your advice! You offer help and solutions, but they never seem to want to fix anything. Instead, they complain and complain.