Q&A

Is it normal to want to be alone forever?

Is it normal to want to be alone forever?

It isn’t wrong, just a preference. It’s ok to want to be alone forever if it’s ok with you. However, the overwhelming majority of people want to be with someone because we are human and desire connection.

How do I stop obsessing over being alone?

If you’re single and unhappy about it, here are 13 things I want to tell you to cheer you up:

  1. Things can change.
  2. Have high standards.
  3. Use this time to learn about yourself.
  4. Don’t chase anyone.
  5. Work on making yourself the kind of person you would want to date.
  6. Learn to love your own company.

Is it okay that I’m still single?

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It’s okay that you’re still single—there’s nothing wrong with that even though you’d rather reality was different. Just know you’re doing okay right now and your person is coming. You’re perfect as you are. It’s terribly sad that you may think there’s something inherently wrong with you due to still being single.

Do you feel like life has moved on Without You?

You didn’t get any of that and now you’re at an age where hooking up is commonplace and you’re still hoping that maybe someone wants to hold your hand sometime. You feel as if Life has moved on without you and as more and more time passes you have less and less of an idea of where you’re even supposed to start.

How long Will you Stay Alone in Your Life?

And if you could step away from the fear, you would know, deep down – it’s very unlikely you’ll stay alone for the next 10 or 60 years of your life. Maybe a few max. Two or three. If you are actively looking, it will very rarely be much longer.

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Is there anything wrong with being alone in a relationship?

There’s nothing intrinsically wrong with being alone, especially when you’re perfect just as you are. Just as a parent wants the best for its children, the universe wants you to have what you desire and it wants you to know you’re worth it all along the way. Your person may be having some of the same concerns.