Why do people flake on my plans?

Having low self esteem in regard to your outward appearance or your personality (and how people perceive you) can make it hard to attend social gatherings or date. By putting yourself out there, you may feel extremely vulnerable and subject to judgement. The lower your self esteem, the more likely you are to flake.

Why is my friend so flaky?

“This kind of flakiness means that either the friend isn’t really focusing on your needs, or else that they want to be reliable, but are just incapable of getting themselves together,” says Dr.

Do you deserve to be flaked on Yourself by the guy you want?

If you find that you’re flaking on guys that maybe you’re not that interested in… and you’re constantly flaking on them for other guys… then you kind of deserve to be flaked on yourself by the guy that you really want. Stop that behavior immediately and start treating men the way you want them to treat you.

Why is my friend always flaking out on Me?

It’s a behavioral pattern that could easily signify deeper emotional distress. If you’re the person always getting flaked on, you have every right to feel frustrated, and to call the behavior rude. But after the frustration passes, ask yourself, “What’s really going on with my friend?”

Why do guys flake out on You?

When a guy flakes on you because he’s pursuing easier women to sleep with, he’s freeing up your time and your emotional energy to be with an actual high-value man. Guys who are only going for easy women are the bottom feeders of the dating world.

What do you do when you don’t want to be friends?

If you don’t want to be friends, please stop acting like you do. If you don’t think we’re worthy of your time, then please stop wasting ours. We deserve at least that much respect. I do love you, my dear flaky friend. It’s the only reason I haven’t given up already.