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Why do we keep doing things that hurt us?

Why do we keep doing things that hurt us?

Your brain started doing this as a way to protect you from a breakdown. When we start stuffing feelings away, it’s because we’re incapable of looking at them – they are too much for us to cope with: too scary, too painful. Your way of managing something that feels too much for you, is to stuff it away.

How do you heal something that really hurts you?

How to Let Go of Things from the Past

  1. Create a positive mantra to counter the painful thoughts.
  2. Create physical distance.
  3. Do your own work.
  4. Practice mindfulness.
  5. Be gentle with yourself.
  6. Allow the negative emotions to flow.
  7. Accept that the other person may not apologize.
  8. Engage in self-care.
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Why does it feel so good to hurt?

Endorphins are our natural “feel good” chemicals and in large doses are more potent than morphine. They help to relieve pain and induce feelings of pleasure or euphoria in individuals, especially when they’re testing their endurance during painstaking exercise routines.

Why does hurting others make me feel better?

Two studies led by psychological scientist Erin Buckels of the University of British Columbia revealed that people who score high on a measure of sadism seem to derive pleasure from behaviors that hurt others, and are even willing to expend extra effort to make someone else suffer.

Why do we lash out at the ones we love?

According to Brené Brown’s infamous Ted Talk, shame is “the fear of disconnection”. People who carry a lot of shame think they are “unworthy of love and connection”. So, when we lash out at the people we love, it’s because we fear disconnection. The more shame we carry around with us, the worse our behaviour is.

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How do you know when it’s time to stop hurting people?

If your attempts to please aren’t working or aren’t lasting for very long, maybe it’s time to stop. Walk away and come back when the mood has shifted. You are not responsible for anybody else’s feelings. If you have done something unknowingly to hurt somebody, ask, talk about it and if need be, apologise.

What is pain and how does it affect you?

Pain can keep people from engaging in physical activity, making it more difficult for them to maintain a healthy weight and keep up their strength, stamina, and balance as they age.

Why is it important to treat back pain?

Pain can keep people from engaging in physical activity, making it more difficult for them to maintain a healthy weight and keep up their strength, stamina, and balance as they age. So treating and managing back pain that results from injuries or health problems is crucial for staying on the path of a healthy and active life.

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What to do if you have done something unknowingly to hurt someone?

If you have done something unknowingly to hurt somebody, ask, talk about it and if need be, apologise. At any rate, you shouldn’t have to guess.