Why does INFJ withdraw?

We withdraw usually to protect ourselves, and not in a typical way. Maybe due to harsh criticism, disagreement or someone doubting that our intentions are pure or real. There is nothing worse than calling an INFJ a liar.

When does an INFJ stop caring?

An INFJ will stop caring when they realize that what they are putting into the relationship is less than what they are getting out of the relationship and they do not see that changing. At this point, they will go from being very caring to being rather checked out and will likely door slam you.

Why are INFJ so distant?

They might have found something serious about themselves recently and that requires elaborate investigation and hence all external sensors are kept to low activity mode, which you feel like they are distant. If they are sloppier than they normally are, it is more likely this is the reason for them being far far away.

When does an INFJ walk away?

INFJs are rarely the type to take all risks and go all out unless we are 100\% certain of happiness and satisfaction. The moment INFJs start to show unrequited feelings, they will stray away from their crush. INFJs step back when they feel uncertain about their feelings.

When can you withdraw Infj?

INFJs Also Withdraw When They Have Been Hurt Being hurt is another thing that causes INFJs to withdraw silently. If it’s a serious hurt, you may find yourself at the receiving end of something called the INFJ door slam, which is pretty much permanent.

Why do INFJs withdraw from people?

INFJs withdraw to protect themselves. INFJs don’t like to shut people out completely, but we do so to protect ourselves from getting hurt, for example, from people who betray our trust and kindness. Also, we don’t shut people out after they make one mistake.

Do you think INFJs are rare?

We are rare. Some people think we are mysterious, while others think we are weird. I don’t blame others for not understanding INFJs because, for the longest time, I didn’t even understand myself. I didn’t understand why I am so quiet and how the INFJ personality and its cognitive functions work.

How do INFJs feel about being loved?

If you want your INFJ to feel loved and appreciated, show us that you care by attempting to understand us. Understanding is deeper than knowledge to an INFJ, and we will love you more for trying. INFJs feel like “old souls” with deep emotions. Often our caring, emotional nature has been mistreated or abused.

How to deal with an INFJ who is Ruining Your Life?

Give yourself the permission to withdraw from anyone who causes you to feel miserable, my dear INFJ. You’re not running away, you are protecting yourself. The people who are meant to stay in your life will never intentionally hurt you. They will notice the slightest change in your behavior, INFJ or not.