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Why is it hard to forgive and forget?

Why is it hard to forgive and forget?

When someone does something that hurts us it can trigger older, deeper pains. Without realising it we can engage in the ‘snowball affect’. We unconsciously layer the new hurt to the old hurt, until we are facing something too big and overwhelming to forgive and forget.

Do you have to forgive someone if they are not sorry?

Reconciliation, when at least one party is deeply and unfairly hurt, is conditional, dependent on how the offending party or parties understand their hurtful ways, change, and even apologize. You are free to forgive, if you so choose, even if the other refuses to apologize.

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What does the Bible say about forgiving and forgetting?

In Matthew 6:14-15, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”

What does the Bible say about forgiving the unforgivable?

Jesus says in Luke 17:3-4, “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.”

Is forgiveness hard to forgive?

I’d like to think I would, but the truth is I’m not sure. As a result, I found myself thinking about the nature of forgiveness and of the power and value of being able to forgive. WHY IS FORGIVENESS HARD? Forgiveness is hard. But why? Perhaps for the following reasons: We’re often reluctant to let go of our anger.

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Is self-forgiveness the same as forgiving someone else?

Many of the principles of self-forgivenessare the same as forgiving someone else. When you forgive another or forgive yourself]

How to forgive someone who has done something bad for You?

Allow yourself to experience the feelings you need to go through, then don’t cling to them, let them go. Try to focus on the good things the experiences have provided you with, however tiny they may be compared with the wrongs the person has done to you. STEP TWO: Write down the name of the person you have chosen to forgive.

Does forgiving someone make them do what they did right?

But first, it is important to state that forgiving someone does NOT make what they did right. You are not saying, “It’s okay,” because was not okay to hurt you. Rather, you are choosing to let go of the bitterness while remembering your boundaries. You don’t have to be friendly with them again.