What do INFJs want out of life?

INFJs Crave Meaning. As INFJs, we must have meaning in what we do. We want to feel like we’re contributing to something bigger than ourselves. Our Extraverted Feeling function, which is outwardly focused, means we often connect feeling purposeful with impacting others.

What turns on a INFJ?

I can’t speak for everyone (my usual disclaimer), but I’d say honesty, compassion, intelligence, curiosity, open-mindedness, and loyalty are real turn-on personality traits for this INFJ. The physical stuff will vary from person to person, but I’d imagine that most INFJ value intimacy as just that: intimate.

What kind of people do INFJ’s need?

They need people who can enter into their very private inner world. People who will listen without judging and try to see the world from the INFJ’s unique perspective — even if it’s just a glimpse. These people are hard to come by, but they are absolutely necessary to the INFJ’s happiness.

What are INFJs obsessed with?

From a young age, INFJs are obsessed with understanding human nature. They yearn to not only know others on a deep level, but also themselves. They may turn to journaling, travel, literature, and art to further their self-knowledge.

Do INFJs alphabetize bookshelves?

They are probably not the types to alphabetize their bookshelves (attending to tiny details in their environment drains the intuitive INFJ), but they do need things generally picked up, put away, and clutter-free. INFJs tend to like minimalist environments, because too much stuff in sight can overwhelm their already busy minds.

Can INFJs make the world a better place?

Sure, they can do routine tasks, but they must see how they fit into the bigger picture. They can’t just punch in and punch out; in order to be happy, they must be working to help others and ultimately make the world a better place. And the world needs what INFJs have to give.