What do you do when your boyfriend keeps insulting you?

Let him know what he said or did hurt your feelings. Try to avoid crying or yelling; just tell him that you didn’t appreciate what he said or did and that you’d prefer he doesn’t say or do it again. Arrange some time apart. If the comment really bothers you, ask for some space.

Why does my boyfriend take his frustrations out on me?

Usually because he feels comfortable passing his emotions off on you. It’s not fair to you and your opinion should be voiced. Some people aren’t aware of themselves, so try and see if he’s aware. If he is then ask him to stop, if he doesn’t then decide if it’s a deal breaker for you.

Why is my boyfriend always so defensive?

So, if it looks like your partner is defensive, it may be that he or she is feeling attacked. Dealing with defensiveness means both partners look at their role in the conflict. Think about saying how you feel without criticizing, blaming or faulting each other, for example.

Does finding someone attractive mean they’re more suited to you?

With all this in mind, it’s important to remember: finding someone attractive doesn’t mean they’re more suited to you than your current partner overall. Based on genetic compatibility alone, you might feel a strong pull toward someone whose values completely clash with yours! Obviously, a relationship with that person probably wouldn’t last.

Why do I feel attracted to people outside of my relationship?

Being aware of your attraction doesn’t mean you have to act on it! Attractiveness is everywhere; real intimacy is not. Finally, research shows that sexual desire thrives on novelty, and that’s another reason why we can feel attracted to people outside our relationship.

What does it mean when a man fantasizes about another woman?

It’s generally a process, which means that in between those days, weeks, months or even years when he is contemplating cheating, somewhere in the back of his mind he is fantasizing with the idea of being with another woman.

Do you compare your attraction to other men?

Which is why comparing your attraction to other men is irrelevant. Leering is somewhat accepted among men, and, to a degree, even encouraged…. I recall a conversation I had with a close friend. He was raised in a Southern feminist household and was taught ultimate respect for women. (This is a GOOD thing, by the way. I ain’t arguing with it.)