What should you not say to your Dom?

How to Outsmart Your Dom

• I don’t bruise easily… We’ll see about that…(
• I never scream! That was before you met me! (
• I bet you can’t make me cry… Challenge accepted! (
• Try me! ( Said with a cocky smirk)
• Oh no, not the cane! (
• Oh no, I’m soooo scared… (
• Ouch, that hurts!
• That barely hurt…

What qualities make a good dom?

Simply put, a good Dominant is someone who possesses the very qualities we would ascribe to a “good person”: kindness, consideration, politeness, empathy, sympathy. A good Dominant, like a “good person” has a strong sense of ethics and honesty and is respectful of others regardless of their position in life.

Is BDSM healthy for relationships?

It’s possible to have healthy BDSM relationships, and they require just as much–if not more–of the same things that healthy “vanilla” relationships do: trust, honesty, respect and equality.

What is a healthy submissive?

A submissive personality is someone who willingly submits to the authority of someone else. Healthy submissive relationships are both conscious and consensual; one party has agreed to carry more power of one kind or another, most often in decision making. The other party has agreed to go along.

What is Breedable and submissive?

In short, ‘submissive and breedable’ is exactly what it sounds like. Literally. If someone refers to a person as ‘breedable’, it quite explicitly just means that they’re hot, desirable, alluring – the list goes on. Of course, there are better ways to go about a compliment than ‘breedable’.

What is Breedable?

When people refer to themselves or others as breedable, they literally mean so hot; they’d like to procreate. The word breedable is ingrained in misogyny both online and offline, but a complex one in fanfiction circles, which are largely populated by queer writers and readers.

What is the difference between a sub and a Dom?

They crave being used and need to serve. They are the subservient partner of a relationship and that is why “sub” is usually spelled with a lowercase while “Dom” is usually capital. A submissive can take on many different roles such as:

Who has the power in a dom/sub relationship?

The power in a Dom/sub relationship rests with the Submissive, not the Dom, which a lot of people do not realise. It is up to the Dom to completely satisfy the submissive sexually and if he fails to do so she may walk away from the relationship.

Can there be jealousy in a dom/sub relationship?

Of course there can be and this is important – jealousy must never interfere in the relationship. A Master will never be jealous of his sub enjoying relationships with other Dom Masters. The sub partner will never be jealous of other submissives that her Master may choose to train or play with.

What are the most common types of Dom-sub relationships?

The most common types of dom-sub relationships are as follows: An example of this type of d/s relationship is a submissive slave and a dominant mistress. This is where the slave surrenders and does everything to please the mistress, and in turn, the mistress will command the slave.